How to maintain relationships.

Being in a relationship dating for centuries. Researchers have proven that in the past, humans used to interact as there where evolving.

In this article, I will highlight how to maintain relationships in our lives to promote the spirit of togetherness in the present day.

Humans are naturally social. We do love interacting with others which is beneficial to our lives. Although, psychologists grouped humans as either introverts or extroverts.  They have stated introverts are naturally shy people hence being in a relationship drives them nuts. 

Unlike their opposite counterparts are naturally social and thus are believed to be comfortable in their relationships. Being an introvert or extrovert the truth of the matter maintaining relationships appears to be easy 1 2 3 but it is the hardest task ever in the universe.

There are  four categories of relationships:

• Family relations.
• School relations.
• Peer relations.
• Work relations.

Factors such as age, social class, gender, family background, and work environment significantly affect our relationships with others. These factors primarily play role in the maintenance of relationships. 

Besides, these factors are the key issues leading a relationship to be considered either toxic or loyal? Red flags in relationships are sometimes ignored hence one decides to end it abruptly.

Going on vacations, celebrating festivals and birthdays, Surprises, and buying stuff for each other won't assure of long relationships. 

1. Never hurt good people.

Good people are not best friends, family members, or even your childhood friend. Good people are the ones who are there with you from difficult situations to happy situations in your entire life. These kinds of people are really hard to find. 

      2. Forgive and forget.

Avoid having grudges in your entire life. Humans are imperfect creatures. Forgiving helps you live a positive life. It is your choice to give people another chance.

       3. Walk with positive people.

Positive people are the ones who see an oasis in a desert. They will influence you to live positively through the life we live is full of roses and thorns. Living positively will improve your health.

            4. Be a good person.

Never in your entire life live a wicked person. Remember “ A good thing will sell itself, the bad thing walks."

            5.  Be disciplined.

Be a disciplined person throughout the entire period of the relationship. No one in the world would like to associate with an ill-mannered character.

                   6. Add values to others. 

Though humans are imperfect. Try to add value to others in their lives and the same will happen to you.

             7. Do not throw stones back.

Sometimes in life, one feels like throwing stones back but I learned every action force has a reaction force. Meaning more pain will be felt than the previous. Remember not all stones thrown are meant to hurt you but collect the stones to create a beautiful sculpture and save your energy.

Having observed these tips be sure to maintain long relationships and save time to seek new relationships. It is important to borrow a leaf from others. Perfect people do not exist.